So I've been researching how to make your blog more successful so I figure I'll take a page out of several people's books and ask for some comments to the following questions and ideas. You don't have to answer all the questions or any of them in fact, they're just there to provoke thought. If you want to comment back with answers feel free, if you want to text me about them feel free, if you don't have my number you can tweet at me and get it. I'm looking for some serious feedback so help me out if you can.
The first topic is this: Pursuit.
Pursuing something you're passionate about is a great thing to do. But at what point do you need to stop chasing what you'll seemingly never reach? What's a worse feeling, letting something get away wondering if you could've done more? Or pushing yourself all the way and still not working out?
Topic Two: Simplicity
Last Night I blogged about a little boy I saw and he made me think that life is much more simple than we make it out to be. What is our purpose in life? everyone says, "God has a plan for us all." But what is that plan? Can the plan be something as simple as loving the life you live and living the life you love? Why do we complicate our lives with unneeded stresses? Sure other people can bring stress into our lives and complicate it for us, but for the most part we bring it upon ourselves. Is it human nature to make life more difficult and have to overcome the obstacles we put in our own way?
Topic Three: Hate
Is life too short to hate? Or are there some instances where hate is the only logical feeling?
Topic Four: Love
At what point should you tell someone you love them? Naturally love is a term used too loosely. I love my mom in a way much different than I love my best friend Ty. And I love him and my mom differently then any girl I've ever told I loved. My thing is if you say you love someone, you need to back it up. What's the best way to show someone you love them? Or is that a question that can't be answered in words merely shown in actions?
Not a long blog tonight, but I accomplished what I wanted. I might start doing one of these every week or every couple days to get you guys involved.
This is one of my favorite songs. Ever.
Pursuit:
ReplyDeleteYou can never give up if you truly want it no matter how hard it seems.
The worse feeling is wondering. At the minimum you can at least say you tried. Wondering will stick in your mind forever thinking what could have been.
Simplicity:
The plan could be just that simple. It all depends on the persons, loves, desires and wants.
Some people just want to live and love. A plan like that can be just perfect for the person.
I think it is human nature is some cases to put obstacles in the way. I think people think things shouldn't be easy to accomplish. They secretly desire a challenge and want to earn what they want.
Hate:
I believe hate comes naturally for some. I think it is impossible to hate one forever. If you hate forever, then your life will always be full of thought of that person. You think about people you hate more than people you love. Forgiveness is the only answer to escape the mental torture you put yourself through.
Love:
I would read my blog on love for my perspective of love to get the jist of my opinion.
I think love can be best shown through words and action. Being there for someone when they need it is the ultimate sign of love. Knowing you're there for them is you knowing you love them. Words and actions I believe simply intermix. Telling someone things will be okay is the action of being there and giving words of love and advice to help out that person. Everyone deserves to be loved in some way whether it be through friendship, romance, or family.
Pursuit: My opinion on pursuit can be summed up by this quote by John Dorian of the TV show Scrubs. "The easiest way to lose something is to want it too badly." Although it can be extremely painful to lose something that way at the time, you'll never have any regrets.
ReplyDeleteSimplicity: I do think simplicity is important. We all have problems and things that stress us out but I think it is just important to take it day by day and live in the moment you're in. There is no sense in worrying all the time and making yourself stressed out. As they say, "Que Sera Sera" meaning whatever will be will be.
Hate: I really don't believe in hate even though I do occasionally throw the word around. I believe that even if someone hurts you, they deserve forgiveness, even if you can never trust that person, or look at them the same way again. Obviously, I've never been in situations that are serious enough to legitimately hate anyone, but this is just my belief.
Love: Actions always speak louder than words. I think love is when you know that you would sacrifice everything you have for the sake of that person. If you can't say that about someone, you don't love them.
Drew Sansonetti
ReplyDeletePursuit: I believe if you want something you try and go for it you take the risk. I would rather fail and get hurt then not try. However there is a time to throw in the towel when your in pursuit of anything in life like job, oppurtunity, or even relationship you make sacrafise for that goal. But when what your sacraficing is more than what you are going to get in return you have to quit.
Simpicity: I dont believe there is a plan. I believe in god but the bible is stories that are soposed to influence us to make good people not to be interprited differnt ways. so i dont think there is a plan i just believe that life is about being able to die and being happy with how you lived.
Hate: i am unsure if hate is real or not i would like to say i dont believe in hate but what is hate. i cant even describe it i think hate is just are rawist emotion in order to reall hate someone this person had to hurt you and for that to happen u must have cared about them in some way as a friend or something more.
Love: i believe in love but in a differnt way then most. i can honestly say i have loved but i dont love many people family friends and girlfriends included. Most people throw that word around but my defonition on love is when u care more about them then u do yourself if you would sacrafice something for them. When u care more about there day went then your own. i can honestly say i truly only love person and its my brother me and him arent always the best brothers and when we fight both have us have been sent to the hospitle before but i know that if i ever needed anythin he would do it i have many friends like that and i would do that for most people but for my brother i would honestly do anything
all of these questions have no anwser everyone can interprit each topic in a differnt way and that is what makes them them