Just like the ability to love we all have the ability to hate. Some people hate others a lot easier than others. Some people can truly say they don't hate anybody. Hell, some people can't find anyone they don't hate.
In my own semi-professional opinion it is a thousand times easier to hate someone than it is to not.
People always ask, 'Oh my don't you hate him or her for what they did to you?'
I don't.
I can truly say that I hate very few people. I think that in a way hating a lot of people makes you weak. Hating is so easy. Loving is a lot harder to do.
I hate people who do wrong to my family and friends, but other than that I don't know that I hate anyone.
In my opinion it is also, from time to time, easier to hate yourself than others. This might only be true for me, but sometimes I really get down on myself. I think it's because I expect more out of myself than I do others, so when I let myself down it hurts worse than when I'm let down by another. I am a perfectionist of sorts when it comes to my actions and as I've previously stated I'll never be perfect.
Don't ever hate yourself. Hating yourself is a weak thing to do. Loving yourself makes you a much stronger person. That is, as long as you don't idolize yourself.
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